Is He the One? Watch for the Signs!

I recently had a car with a broken axel in front of my house that reminded me of some typical human behavior that keeps you from your soul mate. I live close to an intersection in town that recently underwent some construction. In order to widen the road, they closed down the intersection for a few weeks. Like they always do, the construction company set up road signs everywhere announcing the closed intersection. Their signs started at the next big intersection, saying "Road Closed to Thru Traffic." As you got closer to our house, and the intersection, signs every 500 meters or so announced that the intersection was closed. Then, at the brink of construction, there was the familiar road block with the sign road closed on it.

This wasn't all too fascinating to me. Anyone who drives has seen these types of signs before. What was interesting was the number of people who drove all the way to the road block before turning around in our drive way to find a different route. They had to pass at least 3 signs, and stop in front of a physical barrier before they were convinced that the road signs were telling the truth. One morning we even woke up to discover a car that had went around the road block and had broken its axle when it fell into the hole on the other side.

Why is it that people refuse to read the signs? The road is closed. Nothing will change that. There is no magical power given to any of us that will open the road to us individually. It is closed whether or not we choose to acknowledge it. Yet, many people still ignore the signs, hoping things will be different for them.

Many of us are this way in relationships. There are tell tale signs letting us know what lies on the road ahead. Many times we ignore the signs of a relationship headed for disaster and end up breaking down at the end of the line. All too often, we also ignore signs that indicate the long term vitality of a relationship and turn around prematurely because of minor bumps in the road.

What are some of the relationship signs or truths that we should be looking for? Some of the signs are:
1. Understanding how compatible you are with each other.
2. Knowing if both of you are going in the same direction in life.
3. Identifying the universal values like loyalty and trust that must be present.
4. Recognizing the deal breakers that never work in any relationship.

Do you know how to apply the signs in your relationship? Do you have the courage to follow the direction they give? Doing so will save you needless heartache and trial and error. Want to know if he's the one? Just look at the signs!

Wendy Bridger, MSSW, relationship expert, speaker and author, is co-creator of "Get the Right Guy for the Real You" an online interactive course to position the single woman to attract and keep Mr. Right for life.

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Relationship Tip - Women Love Us But

"How can she possibly go out with that guy?" Keep your ears open long enough and you will hear that question or at least a variation of it a number of times in your life.

Some women ask this question not because they want an answer but more so out of plain jealousy. They want what another woman already has. That is all part of the game. Still others really are curious as to why she would even pick this particular guy to build a relationship.

No one can fully understand romance or human compatibility. It is what it is but that does not mean women love everything about us. In fact the majority could really do well without the following:

1. Selfishness

It's all about you. When the circumstances directly affect her, you find away to become the center of it. Dating and relationships are about give and take. Nobody and I mean nobody should get their way all the time or even want to. Not only does it make for dullness in the partnership but you are also buying stock in the resentment portfolio. It may not come back to bite you tomorrow or the next day but the longer the selfishness continues the more likely the resentment will grow. And when it comes to the surface you will be in for a nasty shock.

This also includes being a power freak. You will decide what, when, where, why and how much in every facet of the relationship. You want to be king of the roost but are not willing to make her the your queen. She is not your servant; she is your partner so learn to trust her decision making process and be prepared to let her lead sometimes.

2. Huh?

That means you were not listening. This drives women up the wall. It says that a: you do not respect her opinion and b: she is not worth listening to. Communication is high on the list of priorities for many women and listening is a huge part of the equation. If you need to train yourself to listen than do it. Besides that she will also appreciate the effort on your part.

3. The Mama's Boy

A good relationship with your mom is to be cherished and respected. No woman should begrudge you that. However running to mama to solve some problems you maybe having in your relationship or worse still using her as a standard to routinely criticize your partner is a definite no-no. It shows a strong lack of independence. Keep in mind also that while women may have maternal instincts that does not imply they want to assume the role of matriarch in your relationship. Two consenting adults means just that.

There are of course many other things that women don't particularly like about us but it would probably take days to list them all (You can hear the ladies now saying think in terms of years). That's fine. No one is perfect so follow the three tips mentioned do the best you and watch it pay dividends.

Article written by Daryl Campbell. You can hear the ladies saying that it would take years not days to list all the things they don't like about men. Not surprising but if doesn't have to be that way. Find out how to manage the Relationship Matrix

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Are You Going To Be My Girl?

Sometimes it's the woman who's iffy about commitment. Here's how to tell if the tables are turned on you.

She's always says, "Shall we see first?"

You don't even have to ask- her answer to every invitation is always a definite maybe. If she's really that predictable, it just means that the girl is not into you enough to prioritize you over a zillion other possibilities. Lay off a bit and wait for her to make the next invite.

She flakes more than three times a month.

First, she says yes to dinner - then abruptly cancels with a gushing apology about work or some sort of flu. Sure she may be genuinely caught up elsewhere, but if she does this more than three times a month, the message is loud and clear: she's just not that into you.

She's vehemently anti-PDA.

If she refuses to hug you or hold your hand in the public, it means that she is

1.A total prude

2.A disturbingly late bloomer

3.A commitment phobe.

If she's above the age of 20, I will gun for number 2. Best to keep a close watch for other commitment-phobic behavior like cancelling on you last minute and not wanting to meet your buddies.

She mentions her ex. A lot.

This is a tricky one. While both of you might think this is just a way to get to know each other fast, her hangup about her past relationships is also a sign that she's not ready for something new. If we're really committed, we naturally let go of old baggage. So if you are playing psychologist more than boyfriend, ask her if she needs more time to recover from her previous relationship, and to call you when she's really ready.

She makes excuses not to meet your friends.

If a girl's interested in taking it one step further, trust me, she'll eagerly meet your friends, pets and drinking buddies. Anything that is important to you, she will make the effort.

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How To Attract Women - Attracting Women in 3 Simple Steps

The age-old question we're still learning ...

Attracting women into your life has 3 phases:

Attract Game -> Mid-Game -> End Game

Attract game is simply meeting women in bars at night or during the day, following a systematic approach to engaging them in conversation, making them laugh, spiking their attraction in you and closing (getting their phone numbers etc)

A lot guys focus on this entirely on this phase and although some get very proficient in it they lack skills in the mid-game area.

The drawback to this is they really woo, impress and consequently attract the woman when they meet her however a few days later when you meet up for a date it falls flat on their face.

Well ...mid-game is essentially rapport and comfort stages and is essential to attract women and keep women in your life.

Become a powerful communicator ...

Learn decent social skills as I found that the more women I approached the more fine tuned my social skills became and attracting and keeping women in my life became a hell of a lot easier.

How do you get better fast you ask?

Practice Practice Practice ...

When you're buying milk and bread down the shop work the skills, ask how the assistants day is, have they been busy, any small talk is good.

When you're out shopping for clothes as retail store assistance their opinions and advice, and keep the conversation going for as long as you can, leave when it gets uncomfortable or creepy.

You will find the more you exercise these skills the better you can hold conversations with women (especially on dates) and attracting women will be much easier than first thought.

How to Attract Women: Tip #1

Use humor to attract women. I find a lot of funny guys (not goofy there's a difference) Have exceptional women by their side, humor attracts people as it's a positive and addictive emotion.

People LOVE funny jokes and they love to laugh.

Learn humor (don't just learn jokes), go to clown college, or comedy school. Learn how to hold audiences and what topics make people giggly.

You find that your interactions with women will be a lot more positive and will stay longer in your presence. Attractive women also love humor.

How to Attract Women: Tip #2

Be more emotional ...

Read more girlie magazines ... yes I just said girlie ...

I find that a lot of intelligent guys criticize themselves and talk themselves down a lot, especially when it comes to attracting women.

It comes down to being too logical ...

Women are emotional (we all know this) and men are logical and intelligent men are VERY logical and think that X ?ttracts Y and if Y ?um of blah blah then all I have to do is buy an expensive sports car ...

Sadly a lot of guys think this ... (including me a few years ago)

Save your money guys and your dignity by not trying to impress her with your outward symbols of success.

Same thing goes with buying women drinks ... this is the worst act of supplication you could possibly do and although women will accept it with a gracious smile you are in fact killing attraction and more or less shooting yourself in the foot with taking her home.

How to Attract Women: Tip #3

Become a good conversationalist ...

Shy and timid men don't speak much so how can women find you attract if you don't communicate your attractive traits.

Unless you have master zen level ninjitzu yoda body language and can make girls approach and chat you up using your body language alone you should be fine.

However most guys don't have those skills...I've only seen one guy with those skills and his name was James Bond, the only girls that were approaching him were seductive enemy agents wanting to kill him...

Not good for you Mr Bond.

Learning to speak is a powerful skill to have, so head out to toastmasters and practice those skills guys!

Attracting women into your life is a powerful skill to have. If you follow the 3 steps above you will find it much easier also to keep them.

Speak soon!

Alex
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Alex Coulson has been a core leader in the ever evolving dating industry, he holds cutting-edge dating workshops/courses every weekend around Australia and regularly holds dating seminars on attracting women internationally.

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How To Ask A Girl Out - 3 Amazing Anxiety Killers

No one denies that approaching strangers can be nerve racking. One fact is this. If you stay in corner and never approach a girl you will on no account have the opportunity to ask her out.

Number one - Practice makes perfect. You need to know what to look for then strategies how you will go after it. Guys who are generally speaking hip are not afraid of strangers.

They view these strangers as friends that they have not had the benefit of meeting yet. Meeting strangers and asking girls out will require action on your part. You will need to act with some conviction and determination.

Anxiety is brought about you thinking that you cannot do it. You need to start to understand how to read a woman because when you understand this anxiety starts to diminish as you will know what to look for.

Number two- The other key ingredient you will need to implement is persistence. You will also need the necessary back bone to deal with a little failure. Understand one thing when it comes to failure, it is necessary in order to succeed. Once you know what does not work you can then do what does. All the greatest inventions in the world were brought about by failures.

By the way patience is also necessary. Rome wasn't built in a day.

With that said let me crack a little myth for you. Women are not solely interested in looks. Maybe at the outset it may be a little advantageous. The fact is what's more important to women is how you react, what you say and your ability to read her signals.

Number Three- Be a student of yourself. Watch what you are doing when in various situations relative to women in your company. By understanding your own actions you will be able to address them. Understanding will bring about confidence, plus when you know what to look for your anxiety will dissipate.

Start with baby steps and work it in a way that you are not putting all your cards on the table. This way you will be able to work up to asking her out without the anxiety.

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Free Romance Compatibility Quiz - 8 Questions

These days, there are a lot of great ways to meet new people for a romantic encounter or to start a relationship: online dating sites, Internet chat rooms and speed dating events have been added to the more traditional ways of meeting a potential mate such as bars, vacations, work and through introductions from friends.

However, meeting someone new is just half the battle. Doing a little homework now could mean the difference between romantic bliss and getting stuck with the relationship equivalent of a lemon.

Here are 8 questions to ask yourself:

Question 1: Do you excite each other physically?

It is important that you feel physically attracted to one another. Reason: some people who are feeling desperate to find a mate might resort getting serious with someone who seems to be a "great person" but for whom they lack any attraction. Big mistake!

Question 2: Is it easy to keep a conversation going?

After a couple of years have passed, most couples report a cooling off in their sex life. It is at this point that it becomes particularly important that you actually find each other interesting to be around, not just nice looking or good in bed.

Question 3: Do you have similar standards of hygiene and cleanliness?

Maybe your mate looks well-groomed in public, while their workplace or home remains a perpetual pigsty. If this is so and you are someone who prefers things to be spot-free, you could be heading for trouble.

Question 4: Are you accepting of each other's religious beliefs?

As the world gets smaller, people are increasingly marrying outside of their faith. While it is not important that you agree on all things religious, it is important that both of you are accepting of any differences of belief you have.

Question 5: Do you feel comfortable around each other's families and friends?

When you get into a serious relationship with another person, you have little choice but to link into their family and friend network. When you do, stay in tune with how you feel when around them.

Question 6: Are you on the same page financially?

Money can be one of the biggest sources of anxiety for people in relationships. Some people tend to be savers, while others tend to spend. Neither way is inherently wrong, but it is helpful if the two of you manage money in a similar way.

Question 7: Do you hold similar views about the importance of having children?

If the female member of your relationship is still of a child-bearing age, you owe it to yourselves to have a talk about how each of you feels about having kids; you want to avoid finding yourself at an impasse on this issue down the road.

Question 8: Are you able to accept the other person's political views?

Some couples are able to peacefully ignore any political differences between them: after all, do any two people on the planet see exactly eye to eye on all things political? Be cautious, however, if you are not accepting of each other's views.

Okay, go ahead and tally up your "yes" answers and check the chart below to see how you did.

8 Yeses: Stop what you are doing and book a trip to Vegas right now!

6-7 Yeses: You have a very good thing going on here. Be sure to keep your eyes open for any potential deal-breakers and, meanwhile, have fun with it!

3-5 Yeses: Proceed with caution. Sure, things could work out with this person, but why chance it? Stay open to the possibility that there is someone even more suited to you out there.

0-2 Yeses: Run away while you still can and do not look back.

Is it wise to trust the future of your love life to a quiz you found online? You know better than that. But, before you discount the results, think again. Most people who have been in relationships that have lasted for more than a few months will tell you that there are certain things that just have to be right for the relationship to last.

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Three Things to Consider When He Meets Your Parents

For many budding couples, meeting each other's family is often a time of fun and confusion as two worlds collide. Of course, the most important thing you will get from this adventure is the stamp of approval or disapproval of your relationship from the hosting family. For many people, this is a key factor that will either make or break the future growth of the relationship.

If your potential mother in law disapproves, that might influence your boyfriend's opinion of you for better or for worse. On the other side, if he is visiting your family and is having difficulty fitting in, you might see it as a bad sign.

How big of a role should your extended families play is helping you decide, "Is he the one?" While your family's opinion of your significant other should play a part in this decision, you cannot allow it to be the determining factor in the fate of your relationship. Here are a few things that are helpful in deciding to take your relationship to the next level after meeting the family.

1. Watch how he interacts with family

If you are the guest, now is a great time to get the inside peek of how he will probably treat you in the future. Pay especially close attention to how he treats his mother. Most of us let our hair down around family and show our true selves. If you notice your boyfriend is rude or demeaning to his mom, watch out! However, if you see him respecting her, serving her and including her, you might have keeper. Often, men end up treating their wives similarly to how they treat their mothers.

If he is visiting your family, now is the time to see how he fits in with your loved ones. Does he easily find common ground with your dad or brothers? Is he kind and respectful to your mom? Or is he making it hard to be home for the holidays by hogging your attention and insisting that you keep doing your own thing as a couple? These are all things to contemplate when deciding if he is the one.

2. Take into consideration the feedback you get from family.

More than likely, the hosting family will directly or indirectly let you know what they think of your relationship. How deeply you value family approval will determine how much weight this has on your relationship. Take these two things in mind when accepting or rejecting your family's opinion.

First, family feed back will almost always be emotional. Second, ask for your family to be specific in their feedback. "I don't like him" isn't helpful. However, when probing further, your dad may tell you that he doesn't seem to be responsible and capable of taking care of you, which is important to him. Deciding whether this feedback has merit depends on how important it is to you personally that your boyfriend is able to care for you.

3. Realize that it takes more than family approval to decide, "Is he right for me?"

Your family's response is a valuable resource in deciding whether to pursue a relationship further. They might point out things you have overlooked, and you get a chance to see your boyfriend in an important setting for the future. However, there are many other things to consider before deciding, "Is he the one?" After all, you are going to be the one living with this guy, not your family, not his family. Ultimately, this decision must be made considering other factors, like compatibility and universal relationship truths.

So, enjoy the family time. Discover more about one another, and use other resources to help decide if he is the one.

Wendy Bridger, MSSW, relationship expert, speaker and author, is co-creator of "Is He Right For Me?" an online interactive course full of information and personality quizzes to help you decide if he is the one.

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How To Become More Approachable To Women

There are certain things that you need to do to seem more approachable to women. It could be that if you are finding it hard to meet a good woman, that you are simply sending the wrong signals. If you send the wrong signals you can actually be pushing a woman away rather than reeling her in. So instead of thinking you are too cool to try new things, you should learn what it takes to really make a woman interested in you.

The first thing you should do is to make good eye contact. This allows them to see your approachability so that she will have no problem meeting you and talking to you. It shows that you are a friendly and welcoming person that she might want to get to know better. The second thing, and one of the things that women like the most, is to smile. The more smiles you show, the more approachable you seem to her. It doesn't mean smiling like a circus clown, but it does mean that you shouldn't walk around with a frown on your face all day long.

Your body language and how you hold yourself is also the key in showing that you are approachable to women. If you are walking around with your arms crossed, in an upright position, you are essentially shutting her out. You want to look open and available for women. It is the same thing with looking too isolated. Instead of walking around not looking at anything which shows that you just want to be left alone, you need to look and smile at everyone who walks by. Since this is an easy way to see the women that are walking nearby, you are sure to find someone who interests you.

Finally, if there is one thing that makes you seem more approachable it is self confidence. It is the confidence that you know you are attractive, honest, friendly, and an overall good catch that will reel the women in. However, it is not that easy to feel confident all of the time. There are ways to help with that. By taking a product such as a HGH releaser, you are helping your body to feel better and you will feel more youthful and vibrant which will help you to exude confidence.

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Determine Body Language Clues And Understand What They Are Really Saying

When it comes to figuring out what the opposite sex is thinking, there are a few body language clues that can tell you exactly what is on their mind. Even when you try to hide what you are feeling, your body language will often betray you. Since your body language is subconscious and far beyond your control it is the best indicator for how you look, think, or feel. Learning to recognize certain body language clues in the opposite sex can help you interpret what they really thinking, and it can also let you know what areas of your pick up need some work.

Arms Crossed

When you talk to the man or woman of your dreams, do they keep their arms crossed? Body language clues such as crossed arms often indicate that someone is trying to put up a barrier. This can mean several different things, but in the context of dating it means that they are keeping you at a distance, for now. If you notice this with your guy or girl, take extra steps to show them you are trustworthy. You should also take this as a hint to slow down and allow them to determine your intentions.

Eye Contact

You know how important eye contact is when trying to attract the opposite sex, but being able to decipher what eye contact means is all about understanding body language clues. For example when someone is staring intently into your eyes, it could mean that they are very interested in what you have to say, which is a great sign for a potential love match. Unfortunately if it accompanies crossed arms it could also indicate that the person with whom you are speaking is bothered by you. Either way, understanding these body language clues can help you when you are on the prowl. Do not waste your time if you notice your best moves are not working; listen to the body language.

Crossed Legs

Unlike crossed arms, crossed legs allow you a very clear-cut understanding of the situation. If you are sitting next to the woman of your dreams and she crosses her legs in your direction; this most likely means she is very attracted to you. On the other hand, if her legs are crossed away from you it could mean that she is just not interested or that you are boring her. Body language clues can be as unpredictable as relationships, for a more in-depth look into body language clues and how to pick up women, please take a look at our free report below.

Leaning

If your interest starts leaning in towards you they are definitely telling you that they would like to be closer to you. It can start with the head using a simple tilt in your direction and then progress with the chest and full body. This may be coupled with listening intently to what you are saying, and showing more interest in you.

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How to Escape a Bad Date - Make an Early Exit and Save Yourself From a Possible Tantrum

Life isn't perfect and neither are human beings. Sometimes we make decisions which do not turn out the way we planned them and the same applies to going out on dates. You found a charming person and thought why not give it a try but the date turns out to be like one of your worst nightmares therefore what to do in such a situation? Read on to discover some of the best proven ways on how escape a bad date.

Stop suffering- If you feel that you are stuck in the wrong position and want to get out of it as quickly as possible the best way is to make some sort of an excuse saying you feel sick or maybe you do not feel right and would like to go back home and relax.

Politely make an early exit- Well nothing can be better than being a straight shooter and telling him or her that things are not going the way you planned and you would like to end is there and than.

Do your home work- Always ask one of your friends to call you at a certain point of time while you are out on a date on your cell phone and use this phone call as an excuse that your boss needs some work done or maybe you need some important work done and would have to call it a day.

The sneaky way- Well this would not please too many people yet is the most effective way to escape a date. Excuse your date by saying you need to visit the wash room and make an exit instead. This might turn your date off but it's wouldn't harm you if you don't know each other too well.

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How to Keep a Woman Interested in You - Sweep Them Off Their Feet and be an Absolute Stunner

Well you can meet and greet as many woman as possible but it wouldn't be long before they say goodbye to you and move on. So the big need of this situation is how to keep a woman interested in you? Well women get turned on and off very quickly. They might find you interesting one moment and the very next moment they might think you're the more boring person they have ever talked to. So what is the secret to keeping a woman interested in you? Read on to discover some of the best ways to keep a woman interested in you and achieve mind blowing results.

Keep it short and simple- Make it a point to keep your conversation and comments as short and simple as possible. Do you know that most women would judge you based on the very first five minutes you spend with her and what you talk about within those five minutes? Therefore you need to present your best self and some of your best conversations within those very first five minutes.

Let her figure you out- Don't be an open book and don't give out too much information about yourself too early. Let her do the hard work of discovering you and solving the puzzle. Don't give her everything she wants too fast as that would destroy the mystery part of your personality.

Become a challenge- Don't be too easy to deal with make her struggle for a while. Remember once you become easy for a woman she would probably think you are too easy to deal with and there is nothing special about your personality. Be a challenge for her and don't be what she wants you to be rather be yourself.

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First Date Conversation Topics When Meeting and Dating Women

For a couple of days there, it seemed like the scary stuff was behind you. You had asked that cute girl out, she had said yes, and you had found yourself wrapped up in rosy visions of kissing, canoodling and her laughing wildly at your jokes.

And then you realized. Jokes. Conversation. The most intimidating part is yet to come: you've got a first date to go on and you don't know what to say.

Suddenly you're scared of uncomfortable silences. You've convinced yourself you'll offend her with every word you utter and the only sentence she'll be saying is, "Sorry, I've got to go."

Well, calm yourself down. That isn't going to happen.

You see, I know how to make first date conversation - and I'm about to share my secrets with you.

The first trick is to act calm and comfortable even when you're not. This isn't hard to do. Keep your hands still and your body turned towards her. Lean back a little, make eye contact and give her a genuine smile. Every so often, ask yourself if your shoulders feel stiff, and if the answer is yes, consciously relax them.

Now that you're sitting comfortably, it's time to think about what you could say.

Start by paying her a compliment. Admiring her slinky top or her striking necklace will instantly boost her confidence and help to put her at ease.

If you don't know her well, start with a little small talk. Find out what she does for a living and how she spends her free time. Ask if she has ever been to this venue before and whether she has lived locally all her life. Quickly covering the basics will get you both used to talking to each other and will give you points to refer back to later in the night.

Remember that this is your chance to portray yourself in a positive way, so keep the tone light and your comments optimistic. Listing all the things that get you down will make you appear negative and unfriendly so resist any urges to complain about work, worry about money or criticize the bar staff.

It's important to show a real interest in your date, so ask plenty of open ended questions about the things that she enjoys. Enthusing about her hobbies and ambitions will put her in a great mood and she'll start to associate that happiness with you.

Never interrupt her when she's speaking. It's rude and shows a lack of interest in what she's thinking. Instead, wait for your turn to talk, and then give upbeat but honest answers to anything she asks you. Don't feel that you have to agree with her opinions, but avoid becoming strident or aggressive when presenting your own point of view.

If conversation seems to be drying up at any point, a great way to revive it is with hypothetical questions. Ask what she would do if she won a million dollars, where she would love to live in the future or what sort of superhero power she would like.

Remember that she is just as anxious to impress you as you are to be a hit with her, and accept that every first date has awkward moments. Your aim should be not to fill every second with scintillating conversation, but to find common points of interest and to put each other at ease. So relax, enjoy yourself and you could be pleasantly surprised by how the night turns out.

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Using Dating Online Review Services To Know What's Best Among the Rest

Dating online review services means for user of online dating facilities to compare services from different providers. This will give them an idea of which is going to be the provider of a better service. Review services are important in our internet lives. Online dating review services are just as important as all of the other review services that are available on the internet.

The internet has made the lives of people a lot easier and more convenient in many ways. It has made the world a smaller place that is reachable in just a few clicking of the mouse. Hard printed medium of learning were abandoned in place of the easier and more convenient to use search engines. Purchasing will take place in the comfort of home with only a few card details to give away even if the stores are hundreds of miles away from the customer. A lot of questions in your mind can be answered through the internet. It can solve even your problem of finding a date.

Dating online has become very popular since the internet age started. It gave people the chance to find a partner. This way of looking for a date gives the person more options. It caters to different nationalities, different races, religious beliefs and types of profession. It took away the timidity that hinders some people in asking for a date. This way, they are not very shy in dealing with others because it offers a way of conversing with only the exchanges of some short messages. There is a way not be too personal if you prefer it to be that way.

This type of convenience brings with it good and bad effects so people need to be very careful in making use of it. If there are people who are lucky to find their perfect mate, there are also those that do not have a good experience. Some of those who had experienced the bad effects of internet dating had lost their belief in this mode of gaining friends and they totally abandoned it.

There are some people that are concerned with this problem. They mean to provide balance in the field of online dating. So in order to help in the growing problem of bad service, scammers and all, they have provided review services to check the numerous online dating sites. These kinds of services will provide great help for people who want to make use of the online dating facilities.

There are several dating review services available that assist you see the bad apples. They pick some websites that offers dating services and study the good and the bad sides of that website. They make some comparisons and rank them from the best to the worst website.

Online review services are like check and balance in the world of dating online. It will be beneficial for people especially the beginners in the field of online dating. It will be good for such people to read as many dating online reviews as they can so that even if they are new in that field, they will have some kind of a guide in finding the proper website. There are websites that will only extort payment from users but in return will provide a lousy service. Try to avoid all of such troubles by learning about the different websites through the help of dating online review services.

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How To "Own Your Emotions" With Women - Without Being a Wuss

We as men, more than almost anything else, want to learn to create authentic attraction and connection with women.

But what gets in the way of REAL connection, is what we call social masks.

Y'know, this is the happy face we put on to get through our day.

The grocery clerk says, "Hi! How are you?" And you say "Fine."

Although, the real truth may be that your dog just died, your insides feel twisted, your heart feels caved in and you're exhausted.

j Da Da DAAAA! k SOCIAL MASK! To the rescue! Here to save you from actually spilling it all out on a random grocery clerk.

What comes out instead: "Fine, thanks. Uh, I think these fish sticks are two for one."

Whew-- Crisis averted... Thanks for saving me, Social Mask!

Sure, social masks are valuable and appropriate at certain times... but they kill the juice with women when we don't know how to take them off.

Let's imagine that same grocery clerk situation but instead you're on a date with a woman you're super attracted to. You're really hurting inside and yet you continue to wear the social mask that insists everything is fine.

Now, here's the thing. Most guys have no idea just how sensitive and aware women are. When you hold back or resist your emotions women can sense it and the result is they feel something is "off."

When women feel something is "off" they just can't trust or open up to you in the way they really want to. And quite bluntly, that's the beginning of the end right there.

So does this mean you're supposed to just curl up into the fetal position and cry yourself to sleep in the middle of your date?

Actually, we recommend against that.

But when a man drops the social mask and "owns" his emotions he becomes astoundingly sexy to a woman.

So what does "owning your emotions" actually mean? Let's say you're on a date and you're feeling really sad about your ex-dog. If you can fully feel your sadness, without "collapsing" AND still remain fully engaged, present and connected to your woman at the same time, then you have just been nominated for sexy man of the year award.

Now, just like riding a bike, it takes a little practice. But when you get the hang of dropping the ol' social mask, feeling your emotions and still being rock solid with her, you've started on the path to being the kind of man that even the most radiant women dream of meeting.

If you want to learn to start taking off your social masks and having deeper more rewarding interactions with women check out our FREE Special Report from AMP, Ultimate Guide to Overcoming 'Inner Game' Sticking Points with Women (illustrated with embarrassing pictures of me),

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Bryan Bayer

CEO, Authentic Man Program

Bryan Bayer is co-founder and facilitator of the Authentic Man Program, committed to supporting men in having authentic, flourishing, kick-ass relationships with women. He specializes in helping men overcome their "inner game" sticking points with women. http://www.AuthenticManProgram.com

Online Dating - 10 Rules Everyone Should Know

Online dating is an exciting frontier, filled with possibilities around every corner - but before you begin returning those enticing emails, there are 10 rules you should abide by.

Your love life may be stalled for a number of reasons. A recently ended relationship might leave you stranded with a condensed social circle and feelings of loneliness. You might have experienced a recent change, like a divorce, graduating from college, or moving to a new city. No matter what the circumstance, it is hard to meet new people. Enter the world of online dating - full of variety, spice, and excitement. If you're new to the online dating scene, there are several things that everyone should know.

1. Plan ahead

Are you looking to just spend some time entertaining yourself in chat rooms? Looking for someone to hang out with on the weekends? Seeking a one night stand? Trying to find Mr. or Ms. Right? Determine your goals for online dating and stick to them - otherwise you might hurt the feelings of others or find yourself scraping up the pieces of another failed relationship.

2. Ask your friends

Online dating and chat rooms are standard tools for people of all walks of life looking for love or a little fun. Ask your friends what sites have worked for them in the past. Trust the opinions of those you already know rather than choosing a service at random.

3. Start slow

You may need to spend some time in chat rooms, email correspondence, or even via the telephone before you feel comfortable enough to meet someone. Take your time - there is no rush! Enjoy the process and embrace the excitement.

4. Tell the truth!

If you really want to experience success with online dating, you must be honest. While you cannot control the actions of others, maintaining accountability to yourself will thwart the temptation to attach someone else's picture to your profile or lie about your past.

5. Organize and prioritize

Online dating can be overwhelming. It's a lot easier to browse profiles of individuals that you know are looking for a relationship than to strike up a conversation with someone at the bar. Choose a few of the most interesting profiles, take notes, and limit yourself to corresponding with them at first. You can always look again if they don't work out, and this will avoid too much activity and confusing emotions.

6. Don't believe everything you see or read

If he or she sounds too good to be true, it's very possible that you're looking at a bad egg. Take your time getting to know someone. Check their story. If you have arrived to the point where personal information has been revealed, there are ways you can verify details. If a person claims they work at the local community college, you can check the phone directory for their name. Public record is a valuable resource!

7. Chat room etiquette

That old adage "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" still applies to online dating. Chat rooms often give people a sense of invincibility. When the fingers start flying, things tend to move fast and have the potential to get steamy. Stop. Think. If you wouldn't say it to a complete stranger face-to-face, don't say it at all.

8. Paying for an online dating service might not be so bad

Websites that charge for entering chat rooms or making an online dating profile may turn you off at first glance. You might feel embarrassed or afraid to shell out hard earned money to a dating website; however, you can rest assured that if someone is willing to make the investment it costs to participate in online dating circles, it's possible that they are very serious and willing to go the extra mile for you!

9. Be available

Don't have access to the internet everyday? This might cause problems in the online dating world. Those who try this method of socialization like to think they'll receive quick responses. Be available, consider setting aside a specific time to spend in the chat room, and respond to emails in a timely fashion. Otherwise, you might find your potentials losing interest.

10. Safety first, second, and third

When you've gathered your confidence and found somebody you want to meet face-to-face, remember that you don't know what to expect. Meet in a public place. Drive your own car so that you can maintain control of your environment, and leave if you feel uncomfortable. Even if the first date leads to a second, or third, keep in mind that you've only just met, and there is no need to rush.

Aelicia Anderson has been involved in online dating sites for over ten years and is widely considered an expert in the industry. When not writing her popular dating advice column Aelicia can often be found hanging in her favourite chat rooms.

Meeting Girls in Brazil

Meeting beautiful Brazilian women is part of the lure of taking a trip to South America's largest country. For years Brazil has been known as a place for single men to experience romance, explore sexual fantasies, and share memories with some of the world's most alluring creatures.

I've been traveling to Brazil for many years and have heard many different takes on the subject of meeting girls in Brazil. Much of the information is spread by people who have never even visited Brazil. Some of these people will claim that in order to have sex in Brazil you must pay. Or they will say that you must be rich and promise the girls material possessions. These people are inaccurate. In this short article I want to discuss what it takes to meet women in Brazil.

I've put together a list of some of key points you will need to know if you are planning to visit the country and are looking to experience some of the storied romance that cities like Rio de Janiero, Fortaleza, Recife, Natal, and Sau Paulo are known for.

1. You must know a little bit of Portuguese. Most girls will not speak English. While Portuguese is not necessary in initially meeting them, it is crucial for setting up plans, making phone contacts, and for having an enjoyable time with your company. You don't need to be a master of the language by any means. You just need to know the basics.

2. You must bring your dancing shoes. Brazilian women love to dance. You must be able to go out onto the dance floor with them when the time comes. And you must be able to hold your own on the dance floor.

3. Don't be shy. Brazilian girls are used to aggressive, confident men. Be direct with the girls and let them know what you want. You don't need to play the sort of games you do with girls from the United States.

4. Be prepared to kiss a girl in a bar or club. When Brazilian girls go out for a night on the town it is very common for them to make out with a guy in public. In fact most girls will expect you to kiss them after twenty minutes or so of talking. Do not take this as a sign that they will sleep with you. Most non professional girls will kiss a guy the first night, but make him wait a couple days for anything more than a kiss.

5. Look your best while down there. The girls down there are very into looks. Make sure you are dressed nice, have a good haircut, cleanly shaven, and wearing accessories that the girls can comment on.

6. Be prepared for the stare. In Brazil it is common for a girl to stare at you if she is interested. If you are interested in her take this as a sign to go and introduce your self. And a similiar note, if you are interested in a girl it is not considered rude to glance at her numerous times.

7. Rent a cell phone for the week. This will make it a lot easier to get numbers and stay in contact with the girls that you meet.

8. Rent a condo for the week rather than staying in a hotel. Most hotels in Brazil will not allow over night guests. If you do try to bring a girl up to your room they will try to hit you up with a hefty charge. It is smarter to rent a condo for your time down there.

9. Be careful of meeting to many girls from the same area. Many times I've gotten myself into trouble by showing up at a bar with a girl only to have another girl I was talking to show up at the same bar. The girls will not hesitate to make a scene.

10. Be the fun guy at the bar. If you want to get noticed be the guy in the bar commanding the attention. Talk to many people, be sort of loud, and be friendly with the bartenders. You don't want to be the quiet guy in the corner.

These are just some of the key points for maximizing your time in Brazil and enjoying the most of Brazilian nightlife.

Bobby Rio is the author of The Seduction Bible a blog about dating, relationships, sex, travel, nightlife, and self improvement.

8 Tips On How To Seduce Her Without Saying Anything

Attracting a woman has a lot to do with your body language. Even without saying anything, you can make her comfortable and hold her attention using some non-verbal signals and make an impression. Here are some tips -

1. Eye Contact - A good eye contact is extremely important. It expresses interest and is necessary all the time though you shouldn't be giving her a continuous stare as it may scare her off.

2. Smile - It is the most necessary thing you should do. A smile makes you look more appealing increasing your chances of a success. Just don't fake it as it is very easy to find out.

3. Stand Straight - You should stand straight and tall as well as relaxed at the same time. This makes you look confident.

4. Pay Attention - You don't want to miss anything she says making you look uninterested when she asks for your inputs on the things you are talking about. So pay attention!

5. Show Interest - Along with paying attention, you need to show interest by reacting and making expressions. Make her feel that you like to know and understand what she has to say.

6. Hand Gestures - You can use your hands to be more expressive by making little hand gestures when explaining something. But don't overdo it.

7. Lips - When she is gazing at you, look at her lips and then her eyes a few times. This shows that you are attracted to her. With many people, this happens naturally when they are attracted to someone. Sometimes, you may even want to lick your lips when you are looking at each other.

8. Light Touch - A light touch can prove useful when done the right way like a light touch on the arm while telling a joke.

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For Women Only - 5 Simple Tips For Getting That Perfect Date For The Holidays

We all want that perfect date for the holidays, but how do you get him? With everything else you have to do this time of the year, here are five simple tips that will help you catch the date of your dreams.

Tip #1: Freshen up your look. Try a new hair style - maybe some soft bouncy curls for Christmas and a sleek sexy style for New Year's Eve. Make sure you have a hair style that makes you feel cute and sexy.

Tip #2: Kissable lips are a must! Whether you are a guy or a gal, your lips must be moist, moist, moist. There are lip masks available to help get rid of those chapped lips. To make your lips truly kissable, add a shiny new lip gloss on top of your color.

Tip #3: The holidays are the perfect time to shine. Put that extra gleam in your eyes by adding a highlighting frost to your eye shadow collection and be sure to wear a perfume that makes you feel absolutely sexy.

Tip #4: Find your best asset and flaunt it. If you've got dancing legs, show them off. Wear a cute skirt that's a bit shorter than the one you'd normally wear to the office. If your best asset is a little closer to your neck, wear a stunning new necklace that will draw his attention upwards.

Tip #5: The most important tip of all is your air of confidence. That's right! Don't go into a party stressing about all the stuff you still have to do -- walk in confident that you look great, you smell great and you're going to have the time of your life. That speaks volumes without you saying a single word.

Bonus Tip: The perfect date is NOT boring. You want somebody fun and so does he. Come up with four or five fun jokes to share with your girlfriends during the evening. Laughter draws attention. A woman who is obviously enjoying herself will catch and hold a man's attention quicker than a beautiful woman sitting quietly.

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Online Adult Dating Guide

So, is it really possible to find a soul mate online through a dating service. Speaking from my own personal experience, yes it is! If you are ready to look for love online, you are most certainly not alone. There are currently millions of singles all over the world using the power of the world wide web to meet other single people.

Online dating services have changed dramatically over the years. Todays online dating services provide opportunities for people of all ages, religion, ethnic groups and geographic locations.

The problem that most singles face is not having access to other singles, and this was certainly the case for me, so many of my friends were already in happy relationships it was hard for me to meet single people. Of course I was sceptical at first, as there was still some stigma attached to online dating, however I believe that it has become more and more normal over the past year or so. For this reason, online dating is a phenomenal solution that provides access to people efficiently, conveniently and affordably.

With todays technology, you have the options to ensure your dating experience is fun and successful. If you are considering taking your first step into the world of online dating, the following tips will help you to get started.

1. Arrange to meet your date in a public place where there are plenty of other people around. Don't allow your date to pick you up from your home, at this point you shouldn't have disclosed your address anyway.

2. It's always respectful for the man to offer to pay the bill. However, it may not be a bad idea to go halves, that way your date won't expect anything in return.

3. The biggest obstacle to a person's judgement when on a date, is alcohol. Not only does it affect your judgement, but alcohol also lessens your inhibitions. It is better to either just stick to one glass or try and avoid alcohol completely on your first date.

4. Never assume that your date is safe. It's important to never let your guard down on a first date. Always tell friends or family where you are meeting your date, and arrange to ring someone when you are home safe.

5. Go with your gut instincts. If something doesn't feel right, then it probably isn't. Make your excuses and leave. Also, don't sleep with someone on at least the first three dates.

6. If you are going to exchange numbers at the end of the date, then give him your mobile number and not your home land line number.

7. No matter how much fun you may be having on your first date, always remain alert and remember to have your mobile phone with you, just in case.

8. Dating safely is very important. Remember that in the early stages of dating you are still getting to know someone that you probably know very little about. By creating a safe enviroment, you're creating a better situation for yourself.

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Fun and Inexpensive Dating Tips

Traditionally, the world of dating is an expensive one. When we think of taking someone out on a date (especially men), dollar signs flash over our head and we start planning on how to afford it. This isn't a problem if money is no concern, but what if you're tight on cash but still want to show that special someone just how much you appreciate them and enjoy their company? There are actually a lot of wonderful solutions, non-conventional dating ideas that can really be a blast. They're cheap, and more importantly, involve the two of you enjoying each other's company, so that they're much more personal.

Picnics are not only cheap, but probably one of the most romantic date ideas out there. – A warm, sunny day (Or even a cold one, with a fluffy sweater and a nice coat to bundle in!), beautiful scenery, and good food make the perfect dating set-up. Unfortunately, they're a bit cliché. So what can you do to mix your picnic up a little bit? Well, along with your food, bring along an art pad. Try sketching each other, starting out with your very best attempt at realism, and when you've shown each other your artistic abilities (Or lack thereof), you can go on to making goofy doodles and funny scribblings! This kind of little, spontaneous activity can spawn some of the most wonderful memories.

Few things say romance likes many of the unknown gems that lie in the small towns of our great nation. Most little towns have old houses that have a long historical tradition, rich gardens, haunted locations, small museums dedicated to the town's proud history, or other little jewels that often go unnoticed and aren't advertised. With a little digging online, however, you can find these places, and they provide wonderful opportunities for a fun, romantic date. They're cheap, too – most little out-of-the-way attractions like these charge less than five dollars! Get your partner and together you can plan your own adventure into a little town.

Mad Lib Movie Night is a great twist on a classic budget dating experience. For this, all you need is a movie, preferably an old B-rated sci-fi flick, chick-flick, or previously taped soap opera episode. At the beginning of the movie, each person is assigned to be one of the major characters, and each one has his or her own notebook with a pencil. Turn the television on mute, and play a scene. During this, each person needs to write down what their character may be saying. You can take a funny twist on it and make it absurd, but it should pertain enough to the premise of the situation that it will make sense when both people put their parts together. When the scene is finished, rewind back to the beginning, keep the television on mute, and this time each person reads aloud the lines as their character would say them! One of the things that this date does so well is brings two people closer – you'll notice after a few scenes that you can somewhat predict what your partner will write, and can make the lines even more witty.

The thrift store isn't exactly the kind of place most people think of when they hear "romantic date occasion," but you'd be surprised. This date will test how well you know your partner. Find a local thrift store, and once you're inside, split up. It's now each person's job to look through all of the items in the store to find the one perfect something for their partner. Both people should try to avoid the other, and neither should see what the other is looking at. When you're done searching the store and have found the perfect something, go buy it for them (it won't be expensive.) Then, exchange them on your way out the door! The gift can be romantic, embarrassing, or funny.

Cooking is another activity that can be a wonderful opportunity for you and your date to spend some low-key, quality time with each other. Choose something simple that both of you like, and then the two of you can set to making it, talking and having fun as you work alongside each other. If you've got cooking talent, put it to use! Don't be afraid to experiment a little bit and try new things. In the end, you will hopefully have a delicious something that the two of you can share together. It can be a full meal, or something much simpler like a dessert or snack, but the two of you will be enjoying something that you both made together.

Truly romantic dates don't have to be spent at five star restaurants, and often the most memorable moments are ones that are more casual, goofy, or simple pure fun. The point of these dates is that you are enjoying the time together with each other and the ability to interact with each other, and that it's something that can be done on literally any budget. So open your minds, clear out some time on your calendar, and plan a fun, romantic date for just the two of you where you can get to know each other better and create life-long memories.

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